The B Team Standard

Kate Mangino
2 min readJul 5, 2022

Caregiving Idea #7: Cognitive Labor

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A few days ago, I talked about the cognitive labor that is behind dietary research. (Idea #4, you can find the link here.) But there are many other ways you can help friends by doing cognitive labor. This is especially important when caring for friends who have their hands full, and are short on time — like parents of small kids, people caring for an ill partner, or those busy with elder care. Helping with physical tasks is great — but we all know how much time cognitive tasks take, too.

· Do they need to travel sometime soon? Spend a few hours online and give them a sheet with some good flight options and prices, along with hotel ideas.

· Did they mention their kid wants to start piano lessons, but they don’t know where to look? Call the local community center, or stop into a local music store to make some inquiries. Ask around. Provide your friend with 3–4 options they can try out.

· Are they looking for a new (new off the lot and/or used) car? Check prices, read some reviews, and send a tips sheet that helps get them started with their purchase.

The possibilities are endless when you think about the things your friends have to research, figure out, or plan for.

Click here for Idea #8: Listen, Solve or Carry?

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Kate Mangino

Author of “Equal Partners: Improving Gender Equality at Home.” Writes about caregiving & gender in our personal lives.